Changing your relationship status: Social media and family law
This is an update to an article that ran in our previous blog ELAN on Sep 17, 2012. “I saw you tweeted that Tumblr post I put on Facebook.”
A few years ago, that sentence would have been complete gibberish, and you’d think twice about sitting down beside someone who said that on a bus. Nowadays, however, you wouldn’t give it a second thought. That’s how ingrained social media has become in our everyday lives; in fact, more than half of all Canadians use Facebook every day.
As social media penetrates our lives, it’s no surprise that it’s having greater and greater implications under the law. A quick search of CanLII — an electronic legal research database — shows that 1,108 court decisions mentioned Facebook in 2016 in Canada. Ten years ago there were five (Facebook was created in 2004).
While its use in criminal law has been big news before — tracking down rioters, for example — its effects on family law have been more subtle.
A survey in the UK found that Facebook was cited as a contributing factor to more than one third of divorce cases. For example, Facebook’s list of suggested friends alerted two women to the fact that they were married to the same man. Not only is social media a contributing factor to family law cases, it’s increasingly being used as evidence in these cases.
Your status updates and posts, which are often public, could affect custody, spousal support, or more. They can be used to demonstrate a number of things:
- your state of mind;
- proof of communication;
- proof of time and place; and
- evidence of actions
This isn’t necessarily limited to what is publicly visible, either; a judge in Connecticut ordered a couple to divulge their Facebook and dating site passwords during their divorce proceedings.
It’s not entirely clear how social media will continue to shape and affect family law, but apparently, it’s having an effect, so perhaps it’s best to keep an eye on what you’re posting.